Birth in Australia: Vaginal Breech Delivery Story

Here is a rather unique birth story from a friend in Australia.  We were in the same class in primary school and though we haven't been in touch very much since, I feel like we are kindred spirits in a way since we are both now very passionate about issues surrounding natural birth and have a desire to change things for the better somehow, perhaps by becoming midwives!  She has much more experience than me though, this story being about her fifth baby!

She found out that her baby was breech towards the end of her pregnancy.  In Australia, and most places it seems, a baby presenting breech (i.e., bottom or feet down) automatically puts you in a high risk category, regardless of other considerations.  Obstetricians become concerned about vaginal birth and often seem to suggest Cesarean section, because the risks of infant mortality are slightly higher with vaginal birth.  However, the risks are still very low in both cases and C-sections have their own, fairly significant risks. Many are talking about the fact that fewer and fewer doctors are being trained to assist with vaginal breech deliveries. This article discusses some of the issues (http://www.theglobeandmail.com/life/parenting/c-section-not-best-option-for-breech-birth/article597103/).

It seems that my friend was lucky to have been well-informed of her options and also benefited from a supportive head Dr. from the UK.

This story is also interesting for another reason, but I'll let you discover that for yourselves.  Thanks for sharing!

"I was due for a checkup on Thursday morning at 11.30am at the birthing centre. The previous appointment I had just had at our regular GP and she wasn't entirely sure if she was breech or not; so the birthing centre double checked and then sent me up for a scan to confirm. It was a complete coincidence that in that same morning I started having a few contractions. Not very painful but regular enough to think, hmm it maybe starting!

I called Daniel as he had just flown out to work the day before. He said to call his boss so he could organize a flight home again. I then called mum who was already going to come to my appointment with me anyway. So I got the kids ready for the school bus, dropped them off, made the other kids' lunches and packed a few things to keep them occupied. Changed our sheets put a load of washing on and quickly packed a few things in a bag for hospital just in case I wasn't coming home (which I didn't!). So I drove to the appointment whilst having mild contractions. Baby was still breech so they said obviously I can't birth in the birthing centre. I had a student midwife who was great and kept me company almost the entire day. She had never seen a breech birth and I told her she was welcome to stay and watch. She was also a great help in confirming to me that I was right in my mind to insist on a vaginal delivery providing there was nothing else wrong. So they laid out all the options and thankfully the head Dr on that day was very supportive of vaginal breech births; otherwise I may have had a harder time getting what I wanted!

One of the options was to try and turn baby with an ECV. They give you a muscle relaxant to stop contractions and help shift baby's bottom out of the pelvis so they can manually turn it. They literally push down on your belly under the head and bottom and try to make it do a somersault. The twisting on my skin kind of felt like a chinese burn on my belly! It didn't work though unfortunately so there was no chance in going back to the birthing centre for my water birth, which I was a bit disappointed about. Funny though, I had quite an audience with the ECV as a lot of the student midwives hadn't seen one performed before. After trying, the nurse assumed that contractions would stop after the muscle relaxant and was talking to me about coming in again next week to try turn her again. The student midwife and I looked at each other in confusion and in my head I was thinking, um, contractions haven't even stopped at all! And they were still about 5-6 mins apart. I don't think she believed me when I told her! (I believe I am hard to read as I don't show I'm in pain). Anyway, the midwife came back and they did a vaginal examination which then confirmed I was already 6cms dilated (I was quite surprised I was that far along as it really wasn't that painful!) So they took me to the labour ward.

I was very fortunate to have midwives that backed me in my decision to have a vaginal delivery and did all they could to help. Since I had to have the fetal monitor on I wasn't allowed to labour in a bath but they managed to let me have a long shower (even though they were supposed to have the monitor on me). I seriously thought it was going to be a longer labour because although contractions were regular they weren't as painful as I remember them with my other labours. I could still talk and laugh and hold a conversation! Mentally I think I was also hoping it would take a bit longer as Daniel wouldn't be arriving until around 7pm from the airport. After the shower I put on my labouring clothes and got into a comfortable position on my side on the bed and just grimaced through the contractions as they came. I think it was after 5pm by this point. Finally Daniel arrived at 6.45pm. Contractions kind of stayed the same but they were getting a bit more intense. Then all of a sudden I started to feel like I needed to push and bear down.

The midwife looked down and said, I can see toes! I reached down and felt 5 curly toes sticking out. All of a sudden someone mentioned that baby didn't like something and the emergency button was hit. Drs came rushing in and started talking about a cesarean but I was already pushing baby out and literally she slipped out in about 2-3 pushes in under a minute! Poor Daniel was a bit overwhelmed and sitting on the floor when they mentioned a cesarean. They put her onto me and then after a bit, took her to clean her up and check everything. Something wasn't quite right I could tell by the vague chattering amongst the midwives. I had another shower to clean myself up and then when I came out and had a proper look at her I could see what they were talking about. She seemed to have a few features that look like down syndrome. It was all a bit of a shock and completely unexpected. Daniel was still lying on the floor and (I didn't realize at the time) was in even more shock with being told the rough diagnosis and likelihood of our baby having down syndrome before he had even seen her properly or recovered from thinking I might need a c-section.

My mum asked me if i was okay with her having down syndrome and all I could think of was how could I not be? She is my baby girl and i don't have a choice about it. I would love her like all of my other children. So from then it was a bit of a whirlwind of emotions and anxiety for both of us, trying to change our vision and expectations of how we imagined the next stage of our lives and trying to comprehend how we were going to manage with a special needs child. The day after the birth was definitely the hardest, talking to the neonatal specialist and various other drs explaining everything that comes along with having DS. Thankfully so far, a lot of the medical conditions that are often associated with DS have been ruled out, as she is healthy, feeding well and her bowels are functioning normally. They still had to make sure at that point that there weren't any small holes in her heart but due to her good colouring and no heart murmurs detected, we were told she should be safe - and thankfully the scan showed no irregularities at all. We are very fortunate in that respect as up to 60% of people with DS have some form of a heart condition. We also had to wait on test results to check her thyroid and of course to confirm whether she had the extra chromosome abnormality or not.

Initially the diagnosis was purely from examining her physical features - the slightly slanted eyes, flat bridge of the nose and extra fold of skin (nuchal fold) at the back of her neck. There are other features which are common but she doesn't display them. There is such a wide spectrum with DS so it's really hard to tell until she grows and develops.

Just as we were ready to leave the hospital, results came back that confirmed she has the full extra chromosome. But thankfully her thyroid is functioning as normal. Another tick in the box.

Since being home it has been wonderful to see her develop. She continuously amazes me with her strength. She is practically commando crawling when she is on her tummy! And I've lost count of the amount of times she's rolled - all before she is a month old! We had a little bit of trouble with her gaining weight for a couple of weeks but as I was adamant in not supplementing her with formula (I have read far too much about the damaging effects of formula produced these days), I made a conscious effort to increase the good fats and protein in my diet, along with monitoring the time I feed a lot more closely (I increased feeds to every 2 hours instead of 3-4).  It paid off as we weighed her again after a week and she had put on 330g and grown another 1.5cms! The nurse was very happy and said we can continue along just exclusively breastfeeding. I could not be happier :)"

Thomas's Birth Story

Here is the story of my first child's birth and a bit about the pregnancy. For more info about why I decided to have a natural birth, see this post.

My husband, Lessan, myself and our friend Mona planning for a camp for youth 

When planning to have a child, we didn’t want to unduly impact upon our volunteer work in Bosnia and had therefore assumed we would remain there for the birth.  However, after about four or five months, I began to realize that it would be incredibly challenging for us to birth in a Bosnian hospital.  We realized that it was very important for us to have a natural birth, without unnecessary medical intervention if possible, in a very calm environment. My preference became going to a birth centre or having a home birth, but unfortunately, neither of these options are available in Bosnia.  Furthermore, although one of the hospitals seemed to give some credence to natural childbirth (it didn’t even offer epidural), it had some strange practices I couldn’t abide by, including routine episiotomy for first-time mothers and limiting the involvement of fathers in the birth.

So, with much consternation and stress, my husband, Lessan, and I made the difficult decision to leave our post for three months and have the baby in Australia.  This had the advantages of allowing us more control over the birth experience as well as being able to share this special time with our families.

After some investigation into the options, we decided to hire a private midwife with experience in home births.  We found a wonderful midwife who lives in the Adelaide hills called Julie Garrat.  She was accredited with Medicare, which reduced some of the costs.  We really liked her stance towards childbirth, which included accepting it as a divinely designed process which we need to trust.  She also knew about our Faith (the Baha’I Faith) and had a good impression of it.  We were really grateful that she accepted to take me on, even though I was still overseas and would only be arriving 6 or 7 weeks before the birth - many other midwives we spoke to wanted to follow the whole pregnancy. 

We discovered that most airlines allow you to travel between the 28^th and 36^th week of pregnancy with a letter from your doctor, so we planned the travel for when I was 34 weeks. My gynocologist was happy to approve the trip.

When investigating natural childbirth, I had come across the concept of “Hynobirthing”, a way of having a comfortable labour through self-hypnosis.  I was convinced that natural childbirth was the safest for mother and child, and also very satisfying for the mother, but I had been exposed to many traumatic birth experiences, so I was unsure how I would cope without medication.  Hypnobirthing became my source of strength and hope.  I ordered a “hypnobabies” course online and did my best to follow it once it arrived, at about week 30.  I really enjoyed doing the readings with my husband, Lessan, as it helped us come to a common vision about what we wanted.  I also enjoyed the relaxing nature of the self-hynosis sessions; however, I found it challenging to keep up with the required practice (five times a day).

I also did my best to start my pregnancy at a good weight and in good health and continued to eat well and exercise as much as I could to try to stay low-risk.  For example, I did pilates to have the strength to give birth and did a lot of fetal positioning exercises from early in the pregnancy, daily from the spinning babies website to try to make sure my baby’s head had enough room to go down, and stay down (which, fortunately it did).

We arrived in Adelaide on 7 April after a long trip with an overnight stopover in Dubai.  For the next six weeks, we spent time with Lessan’s family, making arrangements for the birth.  We visited a GP who could refer us to Julie.  We were assured by her that Julie was a well-respected midwife.  And, though this wasn't the case for Julie, we heard from the Dr that some independent midwives were not well regarded by hospitals and sometimes the transfer to hospital was complicated.  The general feeling towards homebirth in Adelaide was not as open as I'd hoped it would be.  I.e. the fact that to get Medicare coverage, you had to get a referral from a Dr, but I guess we were happy to jump through those hoops, since we knew it wasn't even an option in many other countries. For more on this issue, see this article.

Julie followed the rest of my pregnancy, visiting once a week for a chat and check-up. She checked the baby's size by measuring my fundal height, it's position and engagement by feeling my belly, as well as checking my blood pressure and the baby's heart rate.  It was really a novel experience having my belly palpitated.  I enjoyed it very much, as it felt like there was more of a connection between me and the caregiver.  In Bosnia, I had been seeing an OB-GYN (seeing a midwife wasn't an option) and she had never examined me with her hands, she only checked the baby with her ultra-sound machine, and did this at every visit (weeks 6, 9, 12, 16, 20, 24, 28, 32 etc..).  I would have much preferred to have a Dr that usually examined me with their hands, rather than exclusively taking ultrasounds, but we couldn't find one! Apparently, in Australia, they only do two ultrasounds routinely, at weeks 12 and 20, and more if necessary.  Plus, my OB-GYN seemed to want to check my blood and urine quite frequently, whereas in Australia they only do it twice unless there's a problem.  That seems reasonable to me.  Nevertheless, since I'd become accustomed to the interventionist model in Bosnia, it took me a little while to get used to the lower-tech approach and still feel like the midwife was 'doing something'. I guess I'd also gotten used to seeing the baby, which is kind of reassuring, but not really necessary.

Nesting complete at the birth location

We took some time to finalize where we would have the birth.  We couldn’t have it at my in-law’s place, where we were staying, but fortunately found another family who lived in the hills who were happy to host us for a few weeks.  They had had all three of their children at home, so they were really supportive and understanding about our choice.  We moved into their place a week before my estimated due date and basically just relaxed and hoped the baby would come.  For most of that week, there hadn't been much sign of impending labour, except for a few Braxton Hicks contractions, which I'd already been having for a while.

On 19 May (the day before my due date), we went out with some family members for a visit to a nearby village. That morning, I started to get excited because I had had many more Braxton Hicks contractions and they continued almost all day. Sadly, it all stopped that evening.  However, that day a fair bit of clear/yellow fluid started flowing.  I called Julie about it and she agreed that it probably was just vaginal fluid.  But, by Wednesday 23 May, I started to wonder if it could be amniotic fluid.  Julie came over and had a look at my pad.  She couldn’t be sure, but was tempted to think it was amniotic fluid after all.  If it was, she assured us that it was from a small tear at the top of the uterus.  The only concern was that it could lead to infection, but she thought this to be incredibly unlikely.  As a precaution, she suggested I take my temperature every 4 hours.  If I wanted to test for sure whether it was amniotic fluid, I could go to the hospital, but if they found out that I did have a leak, they would fully break the waters in the hopes of starting labour.  If it didn’t start in the next 24 hours, they would proceed with stronger and stronger induction methods.  It would mean a very different journey to the one we hoped to tread.  Just contemplating this possibility was very unpleasant; however, I was ready to take that route if it was deemed the best for the baby.  In the end, though, we concluded that the risk to the baby was very small by just waiting for labour to start naturally and by being careful to avoid infection.  We went to the pharmacy and got some supplements and spent a bit of disturbed night wondering if everything would be okay.  I even called Julie at midnight to tell her that the waters were now red, but she assured me that this was fine; it just meant there were changes happening in the cervix.

By this time, our hosts had left the house to go on a trip to Vanuatu (they left on the 22nd).  I had told mum we wanted some time to ourselves, so we just spent the next couple of days cleaning and arranging down stairs. I was grateful that family wasn’t around, since they probably would have made it harder for us not to go to hospital.

By Friday night, I started having some mild contractions, very spaced apart. I called Julie and she said just to sleep and relax, because I would need my strength for the rest of the labour. Saturday was spent with a visit from family – cooking and cleaning together.  The contractions continued, but once again, they were very spaced apart and I was able to behave as normal, I just rested and leant forward during contractions. I had a nap in the afternoon as well. By 11:30pm the contractions had become stronger and closer together so we started timing them and they seemed to be between 1 and 5 minutes apart, lasting around a minute each. I was pretty sure that this meant I was fairly advanced in the process, so I called Julie expecting she would come soon. However, she said it sounded like it was still pre-labour and I should rest as much as I could through the night and we would talk about it in the morning. I was a little disappointed to hear that, but I did my best to rest though I couldn’t really sleep through the contractions any more. Lessan went downstairs and pumped up the birth pool, then we moved to sleep in the lounge downstairs, beside the fire (because it was getting cold upstairs). We dragged an armchair close to the mattress so that I could kneel on the bed and lay my head on the chair. I spent most of my time there, from then on. We put the electric heater next to the toilet as I frequented it often. I managed to get through the night by resting between contractions and trying to use my hypnosis techniques during contractions. Unfortunately the self-hypnosis didn’t seem to be eliminating pain, but it did help me to stay calm and relaxed, which made them easier to bear. Lessan suggested I listen to the Birthing Time track from the hypnosis course, but I flatly refused as I had tried listening to it earlier in the evening and it annoyed me by suggesting that my “warm and loving pressure waves” were comfortable like a big strong hug, which simply wasn’t true. I did, however, enjoy listening to the playlist that we had selected for this time, and appreciated the low light and the oil burner burning clary sage oil. 

In the morning it was apparent that I still wasn’t in active labour as my contractions were irregular. Julie sent us a link to an article about a pattern of labour whereby a woman can have a very long latent labour followed by a very short and effective active labour. The latent phase is characterized by irregular contractions (though sometimes close and intense), and can last many days.  Changes do occur to the cervix, but dilation goes up to about 3cm.  However, throughout, the body is doing necessary work to change the body and position the baby, so dilation can increase dramatically within minutes when the time is right.  So, it’s important to trust the body, be patient and think of it like an endurance test.  Sometimes, mothers are told to keep active to try to get things going, but by doing this, they end up exhausting themselves and end up in hospital as a result.  She reassured me that I wouldn’t be slowing the labour down by resting, I was doing what my body needed.  If I did want to be active, I should only do so in the day – keep day day and night night as much as possible.  This was crucial advice and I think I may just have had more problems if I hadn’t followed it.

I spent the rest of the day much as I had the previous night, mostly leaning forward over the couch but occasionally walking around a little or sitting on the birthing ball. Anything else just made contractions unbearable.  We kept the lighting low by having the curtain closed, which I found to help foster a calm environment. Lessan supported me by bringing me food and drinks and saying prayers aloud, and reading to me a little.

In the evening Julie came to visit. My contractions had gotten stronger and I couldn’t talk through them anymore. She checked the baby’s heart rate and informed us that I was still in pre-labour and needed to continue to rest.

By midnight I was finding it harder to relax through contractions. Lessan timed some of my contractions and it seemed like they were a bit more regular, around 5 minutes apart. I was also feeling pain in my cervix and near the coccyx bone so I thought I might be in active labour. I called Julie and she said it was most likely the beginning of active labour. Once again I was quite disappointed that it was only the “beginning”. She encouraged me to continue to rest and she would come to see me in the morning. She said that she would come to check my dilation at that point (she hadn’t up until that point). If it still hadn’t progressed much then I had the option of going to hospital if I wanted an epidural so I could get some sleep. These options started to become more appealing but I still hoped it wouldn’t come to that. I just worried what transition would be like, if this was just “early active labour”.  A little later I noticed that I had a strong urge to urinate but nothing would come out. Julie later told me that this meant the head was descending.

A few of hours later, Lessan had fallen asleep and I was having a lot of trouble managing, so I decided to have a quick shower, even though we were trying to conserve the limited hot water supply. By 4am I called Julie and asked if should go in the birthing pool. She said I could if I wanted to, but suggested I could also have a bath.  I reluctantly decided to have a bath – I had been longing to get into the birthing pool from the first contraction on Saturday night.  I soon started to feel a little ‘pushy’ at the end of contractions, and this got much stronger by the time I got into the bath, around 5am. In fact, my body was pushing without me doing anything at the end of each contraction. This really scared me as I was pretty sure my cervix couldn’t have been fully dilated yet, and I had heard stories of women pushing without being dilated which caused injury to the baby. So I frantically called Julie and she tried to reassure me that it was okay to push, and that she was coming. She asked me to put my finger up my vagina and I did feel something soft there, which she said was probably the head but I wasn’t so sure because it was so soft. I still didn’t believe it was okay to push, even though I couldn’t stop the pushing when I tried. I was making loud noises in my attempts not to push and counting the minutes until our midwife would arrive.  Meanwhile, Lessan went out to fill the birth pool.

When Julie arrived, she checked me and saw that I was more than fully dilated, the head was about to come out!  She helped me walk to the birth pool, which felt strange because the head was so low.  I was going as fast as I could so that I wouldn’t have a contraction on the way, but I didn’t, since they had become quite spaced apart.

Lessan got in the pool with me to support me.  We saw that it was 6:15am.  We were happy and smiling, marveling that the time to push had come so unexpectedly.  Lessan held me as I lay back, and then I decided to squat, so he sat in front of me and held my hands.  I pushed only when I felt a contraction.  As I said, they were now quite spaced apart and also their intensity seemed a lot less, more of just an opportunity to push, which was a huge relief.  Soon the head emerged and I could feel it with my hands.  It was so soft and I could also feel the hair swaying in the water.  Each time I pushed, the head came out, but then at the end of the contraction, it came back in.  This was happening for some time and I was starting to become impatient, but I still didn’t want to push too hard and risk tearing.  Julie was just sitting by and reassuring me that I was going well and that everything was as it should be.  She also busied herself boiling the kettle to keep the pool warm (unfortunately the hot water system wasn’t cooperating too well).  At some point, she checked the baby’s heartbeat and said that he was “enjoying his birthday”.  She also took a number of photos for us.  Lessan got out at some point, since I was managing without needing to lean on him and he was uncomfortable in the water.  Actually, I was too, but I liked the water for the pushing. Eventually, the head came out to a certain amount and didn’t retract again.  At the next contraction, it emerged fully as I was kneeling forward.  Then, with the next contraction, Julie told me to give a big push.  This took a lot of strength and I felt more uncomfortable stretching than ever before at that point, but it didn’t matter so much because that was the moment that the rest of Thomas’s body emerged.  Julie caught him from behind and passed him to me under the water so that I could lift him up!

I pulled him into my arms and held him for a while. He was quiet and not breathing at first, but Julie assured me he was okay, since he was still being fed by the placenta.  I blew on his face and he eventually let out a bit of a cry, which was a relief.  From then on, he was rather calm and content. I then tried to lead him to the breast, but he didn’t want to take it.  We called the family and had a chat.  After a while, I became a bit uncomfortable, as the water wasn’t warm enough and also I had a bit of discomfort down below.  I was also worried Thomas was getting cold.  Once the cord stopped pulsing, Julie clamped it and Lessan cut it.  I then handed Thomas to Lessan so that he could hold him while I pushed out the placenta.  The idea was to wait for contractions to come naturally from the nipple stimulation of the breastfeeding, but that wasn’t working, so I just pushed really hard and it came out, mostly.  I had to push and also pull it a little to get the rest out.  Big globules of blood also came out, which made it seem like the placenta was broken, but fortunately it wasn’t.  The pool went all red, like there’d been a shark attack (so I guess I hemorrhaged a bit)!  After that, I was pretty eager to get out.  Julie helped me climb out. It felt very strange because my belly was like jelly, it was as if I didn’t have any abdominal muscles at all!

She led me to the bed and I lay down and tried to breastfeed again.  It wasn’t working, so Julie intervened to help things along.  He finally latched on.  It was so strong, it felt like he was biting, but I remained calm as our midwife saw that he was latching on correctly. While he fed, I ate some food Lessan brought to me.  Julie then had a look to see if I had torn as I looked at Thomas next to me.  Unfortunately I had.  This had been something I really wanted to avoid.  But, now that it had happened, I wasn’t particularly concerned.  It hadn’t hurt me a lot and it seemed rather minor in the scheme of things.  I hadn’t torn when the head was coming out, as I had felt myself that whole time, but it must have happened when the shoulders were coming out, as he had probably twisted himself a bit.  In fact, I remember feeling him trying to wiggle his way out.  (Even when only part of his head was out, I felt him turn from side to side – a very weird experience!)  She saw that it was a shallow cut, but it went all the way to my anus, so it required stitches.  Apparently, I have an unusually short perineum.  At first, she thought it would be best to have the obstetrician to do it, so we prepared ourselves to go to the hospital.  But, after realizing this obstetrician wasn’t there, she called him at home to ask some questions and decided to do it herself. The local anaesthetic didn’t really hurt after the previous exertions, and then the stiches not at all.  Thankfully, I had a midwife who was a good suturer, who carried local anesthetic! I then got up and had a shower.  I still couldn’t wee, and it felt like I had no muscles left down there, but I weed later in the day and by the next day, I was basically back to normal in terms of elimination needs.

It felt so strange to suddenly have a baby.  It took me a little while to get my head around the idea.   I had used all my mental power to get through the labour and birth, I wasn’t quite ready for this next stage.  It also took a little while (that day I guess) to bond and really fall in love with Thomas.  I didn’t exactly feel a sudden rush of emotion for him; it grew slowly but surely over the day.  However, I was incredibly happy and excited about the birth.  I felt so relieved that it had gone so well in the end and that the baby was safe and healthy. I was so relieved that I hadn’t ended up in hospital. I had avoided being induced because of the leaking amniotic fluid and I had avoided going because of exhaustion from a long labour.  I was also incredibly surprised that I had handled the pain so well.  I had hardly even made a sound the whole time (except for the pushing, which had left me with a sore throat, not because it was painful, but due to the nature of the sensation).  I reflected that, although definitely uncomfortable, I found the labour manageable and not deserving of the fear that people create.  I felt much empowered for having gone through this experience almost entirely on my own – for many hours Lessan was asleep and our midwife wasn't there for most of the time.

Thomas asleep after his first feed

I should add, though, that it seemed like the hardest part of our midwife's job started after the birth.  She was responsible for making sure Thomas was healthy, was feeding okay and was gaining weight.  She visited me every day in the week after the birth to make sure this was the case and then a couple of times a week in the weeks before we left Adelaide.  Thomas and I had a little bit of trouble getting the hang of breastfeeding in the first few days, so it was such a relief to have that constant support and guidance.  I had many questions and concerns and Julie was always on available by phone, between visits, to help which was great.  This was a great, though brief, experience in continuity of care!

I think a lot of my good experience can be attributed to having a very experienced midwife who trusted in the natural order of things, yet knew when intervention would be needed, and encouraged me to rest and also take charge of my own experience by showing her confidence in my ability to birth this baby!  I also did benefit a lot from the hypnobirthing preparation.  It helped me learn to relax, even when I felt fearful.  Though it didn't eliminate pain, as it said it could, I don't think this is a problem.  I'm now not sure if it is realistic to do so.  It's part of the order of things, a part of transforming into a mother, but maybe that should be another post!

One blog to rule them all

I created this blog to share interesting things I'm learning about pregnancy and birth, since I am very interested in the subject and hope to one day become a midwife.  However, after discovering this blog, I almost feel tempted to give up because it has almost everything I could hope to include and more!  Well, I'm sure there's more out there of interest, but I will certainly refer to it often.  And so should you, it's a great resource! :)

http://midwifethinking.com/

Latent labour phase

I was so grateful that my midwife sent me this link.  It explains a common pattern of labour, which seems to be especially common in first births, whereby the latent phase is very low, but there is a short, effective active stage.  In such cases, where the latent phase can last days or even weeks, it's very important to rest and stay relaxed to have the endurance to cope.  I found it interesting, from another article, that this phase does produce changes to the cervix, but only up to about 3cm dilation.  It is useful work preparing the body and the baby for the next phase.  I've read a number of stories where women try to bring on active labour by being very active and unfortunately only tire themselves out and don't have the energy to push, so end up in hospital unneccessarily (when planning a homebirth).
http://www.midwivesnaturally.com.au/pre-labour

However, just to stir things up a bit, Rachael Reed, the writer of midwifethinking, objects to the conceptualization of labour into various stages and notes that a woman's contraction pattern is as unique as she is, so it may not be accurate to think of things in terms of latent versus established labour. I certainly know it would feel better to just be in labour and not have to worry about what stage it is.
See both of these posts:
http://midwifethinking.com/2010/08/18/the-effective-labour-contraction/
http://midwifethinking.com/2010/12/22/stages-of-labour-and-collusion/